Mr RIGHT HUBBY TYPE ASKS:
HELP ME UNDERSTAND THIS: WOMEN THEY GOT THERE TYPES SO WHEN THEY FINALLY REALIZE THEYRE TYPE ISNT WORKING OUT INSTEAD OF BROADING THEYRE SEARCH AND BEING MORE OPEN MINDED AND THINKING MORE OUTSIDE THE BOX GIVING MEN OUTSIDE THEYRE TYPE OF CHANCE. THEY GIVE UP ON MEN AND SAY THEY WAITING FOR GOD TO SEND THEM A MAN(GOOD LUCK WITH THAT 1 BECAUSEY YALLS HEAD IS SO FAR UP UR ASSES YALL WANT REALIZE ITS HIM WHEN HE COMES) SO WASSUP WITH THAT? WHY DONT YALL JUST GIVE EVERY AMN WHO WANTS TO GET AT YALL A FAIR CHANCE?
MACK RESPONDS
@Mr Right, The ladies are being tough on you, but at least he is willing to say what is on his mind. One of the things a lot of people complain about in a relationship. The "If I would have known" stereotype is broaden right now with criticism of Mr. Right, instead of treating the situation based off the issue that he is presenting. Now me personally. I have dated the models and than some. When you get older and more mature. Looks is not everything. Ive met some that claim to be a freak, but was worried about there hair getting messed up in the bedroom, or putting on a wrap over there head and some bum clothes to bed. Now thats sexy for those that handle there business, but it is not for those that do it based off the fact that they are trying to look good for everyone else but yourself. Mr. Right, you have to find substance. We all want the model type thats a freak in bed, and gets down whatever way we want, but also have to put the shoe on the other foot. A lot of ladies got out of a bad relationship and sometimes you come in being the first one they date, and that is normally not the position you want to put yourself in. They spend so much time trying to figure out how much are you like there ex to the point they make up reasons not to like you. You can be the best guy in the world, but if the time is wrong, than you will end up resenting the person that you may want to be with, and she may want to be with you. Some people in general need time, and I made a quote thats evenin my tag line. Do not bring prejudice and bias from your last relationship as fuel to get into another relationship, because the equation will always equal failure. Sometimes its best if they just getting out of a relationship or just starting to date, to keep it at a friends only level. Give you and her time to really get to know each other. I'm not saying you can't fuck on the first date by far, you grown, and if you two want to get down after a few minutes of chit chat than so be it. Make sure you find out what page she is on and vice versa. However no one should be lead on, because thats the common reason why they are out there current relationship. I just keep my business on a "friend only" level and if its going to go further than you both will know. Just let this one go in the meantime, and grass on both ends won't always be greener. At the very least, she is just part of the 90 percent thats practice, because only 10 percent of the ladies you will meet will become more than just friend. So with those odds, I think you will be ok. Take your time, and don't let that hate taint who you are!!
